1.
a courteous expression (by word or deed) of esteem or regard
his deference to her wishes was very flattering
2.
courteous regard for people's feelings
in deference to your wishes
3.
a disposition or tendency to yield to the will of others
When Black Jack Ketchum was hung back in 1901 in Clayton New Mexico, the noose actually ended up taking his head off. The head had to be sewn back on so Black Jack could be buried properly.